Awww... the neglect, I've been so busy these past few weeks that I haven't got time to update the blog as much as I'd like to. My computer also underwent some reinstallation hence, the utility I use to upload pics to blogspot is gone as well! Anyway, casting back to what happened in Alden's fouth month on Earth........
Spead the LOVE (virus) around!
Ah yes, ILLNESSES!!! First, it started with Karen, she had a mild cough and a sore throat, but a dry one, then she had a fever and something like a flu got to her, then, after about a week I started developing the symptoms as well... Don't get me wrong, we pretty much stayed out of Alden's way, we tried not to carry him and all, Alden also started to sleep with Grandma (cause she's healthy, and I'm like taufu) to isolate him from all the germs floating around at night. Karen wanted us to get well as soon as possible because all in all Alden was with Grandma for nearly 4 weeks, as the cough didn't want to go away. Despite all the stringent precautions that we took, Alden also got the virus.
So he too started coughing and it's worrying to hear him cough as he can't really expel out the phlegm as well as adults. So we took him to the doctors and he put him on some cough syrup, phlegm medicine and just in case antibiotics. He weighed about 8.7 kg too! his coughing was very worrying, reason being if he cried he'd start coughing and then out comes the milk he just drank! So we have to cut down his milk by about half to stop that from happening. Sometimes he'd go on 6 hours on 3 ounces of milk, very very worrying indeed.
We were anxious because he'd develop mild fever that will go away as abruptly as it appears and whenever we feed him medicine he seems to be droopy and sleepy all the time. After that he started developing rashes!!! Again we went to see the doctor who gave us some anti histamine to help clear the symptoms that looked like hives.
However, the hives like symptoms were pretty persistent for about 3 days, he'd go to bed all clear and the next morning, have a new set of them cropping up. Everyone thought it was the medication that the doctor gave but I figured it wasn't. It's a good thing that Alden has such a good father who can analyse the situation well and I said that it was the Ridsect that we've been spraying into the room. After all, it's dengue season and we've been extra vigilant and generous too with the spraying, especially when my dad has the can!!! Anyway, we stopped spraying for about 2 days and all the symptoms cleared! So Karen's much relieved now and she say that the baby is like me, "Sensitive to everything, must be inherited!"... Ahh, blame the saviour...!
Chinese New Year! Gong Xi Fa Cai!
Well, after that episode things seem to be well, and Chinese New Year came! Wow, Alden really got a tonne of ang pows, and Karen and I were commenting that we have to go through 3 New Years to collect that amount that Alden got! Times sure have changed! I suppose either inflation have really caught up with us or that we have more people giving compared to when we were qualified to receive ang pows. Actually he got a lot from Grandma and Granddad so it's good!
By the time of New Year, he still had phlegm and you can hear it when he breathes. Ugh! Nowadays he like to put two fingers of his left hand into his mouth whenever he can, also he struggles a lot while being fed and is more insistent about everything, like wanting to go out, wanting to see things, wanting to be carried while being put to sleep... Oh he's spoilt...! About the only person who doesn't spoil him would be his dad....! Hahaha, can you imagine having a sensative ear when he's bawling into it... Oh no... I'd drop him to someone else... heh! He's also starting to slim out, even cousin John said so on his last visit to see Alden.
Would love to upload some pics, but I need my digital camera back from Thailand (my dad's having it) and I need to install Picasa first too! See you next time!
Sunday, February 20, 2005
Monday, January 03, 2005
3 Months 1 Week
Happy New Year!!! It's now 2005 and as I've said to so many people, the season is less festive each year. This time round, the Tsunami 26-12 (I can see a pattern here, naming catastrophic events and appending the date at the back, at least this time, it occured in the ASEAN region and we used a DD-MM format instead of 9-11 which is in MM-DD format, confused Americans!) came and gave us a rather unexpected shock (no pun intended, really). As of today, the 4th of January, the death toll from the magnitude 9 Richter quake just off Aceh tops off at about 160,000. Your Kong Kong said that he expects it to be about 170,000.... I'd say 220,000, he said the figure was too high :)
Anyways, Alden can now hold his head up quite well, he has also grown noticably longer, and we've christen him thunder thighs as well now, apparently, his thighs are bigger than Grandma's forearm.. scary thought, taking after his father they all said (such indignition).
He's also growing TEETH, at 3 months, he's teething already?! Yup, apparently from the ladies who dare to put their fingers into his mouth and have a good feel about, he has teeth and Karen also said last night that she can already see one surfacing from the bottom gums. Teething periods are especially trying, not only for the baby but also for the caretakers because the baby is especially unruly at this point of time. Requiring extra attention and also throwing tantrums at unbelievably loud levels. We've gotten him a teether but he hasn't taken a liking to it. He prefers the fleshy part of his hand better.
As for me, I'm taking it all in stride, allowing others to calm him down, not because I don't want to take care of him, but rather, I have sensitive hearing and he prefers the upright position now, so sometimes when he goes and has a loud one, I feel like my ear drums are being pierced by knives. Of course, everyone thinks I'm such a wimp because "I can't take my own baby's crying..." If only they knew what a blessing and curse of having sensitive hearing can be.
He is also growing more and more naughty, he expects to go for walks on a daily basis now, knowing EXACTLY what time to wake up, his times are about 4 pm and like clock work he will wake at this time as he knows that Kong Kong and Narti Che Che would bundle him up in his "Ferrari" (stroller la) and go walking around the field. He expects 3 rounds at least and if not given the 3 rounds, he'll protest going into the house after the walk. That does not include bad weather by the way :P
So all in all, he's developing nicely, he also knows when people are upset with him, as I tried to scold him once and he daren't look at him, or rather didn't want to look at me after he's calmed down. Very perceptive, thing is I felt guilty for reprimanding him as he can't help crying if his gums are itchy now can he, ok la, give chance, next time have to be more patient...
So until next time, I'll get some piccies up for ya!!!
Anyways, Alden can now hold his head up quite well, he has also grown noticably longer, and we've christen him thunder thighs as well now, apparently, his thighs are bigger than Grandma's forearm.. scary thought, taking after his father they all said (such indignition).
He's also growing TEETH, at 3 months, he's teething already?! Yup, apparently from the ladies who dare to put their fingers into his mouth and have a good feel about, he has teeth and Karen also said last night that she can already see one surfacing from the bottom gums. Teething periods are especially trying, not only for the baby but also for the caretakers because the baby is especially unruly at this point of time. Requiring extra attention and also throwing tantrums at unbelievably loud levels. We've gotten him a teether but he hasn't taken a liking to it. He prefers the fleshy part of his hand better.
As for me, I'm taking it all in stride, allowing others to calm him down, not because I don't want to take care of him, but rather, I have sensitive hearing and he prefers the upright position now, so sometimes when he goes and has a loud one, I feel like my ear drums are being pierced by knives. Of course, everyone thinks I'm such a wimp because "I can't take my own baby's crying..." If only they knew what a blessing and curse of having sensitive hearing can be.
He is also growing more and more naughty, he expects to go for walks on a daily basis now, knowing EXACTLY what time to wake up, his times are about 4 pm and like clock work he will wake at this time as he knows that Kong Kong and Narti Che Che would bundle him up in his "Ferrari" (stroller la) and go walking around the field. He expects 3 rounds at least and if not given the 3 rounds, he'll protest going into the house after the walk. That does not include bad weather by the way :P
So all in all, he's developing nicely, he also knows when people are upset with him, as I tried to scold him once and he daren't look at him, or rather didn't want to look at me after he's calmed down. Very perceptive, thing is I felt guilty for reprimanding him as he can't help crying if his gums are itchy now can he, ok la, give chance, next time have to be more patient...
So until next time, I'll get some piccies up for ya!!!
Tuesday, December 14, 2004
10 Weeks - Fatty Baby!
Upon Grandma's Arrival...
The two weeks with grandma came and went, we had a wonderful time being able to take care of him at nights as he's less fussy now. Sometimes we have to export him over to my mum for night care as he wouldn't stop crying, somehow he feels better with grandma. Now however, he has learnt to sleep reasonably through the night provided that we feed him well before 12 am. So that works.
Karen and I also alternate (or try to) duty nights, so on one night, she'll feed the baby and on the next I'll do the feeding, however, I think I've been cheating because I don't remember waking up as much. Anyway, Alden now wakes up at about 5 to 7 am in the morning and that works well with Karen's schedule. So no complaints.
I am now happy to announce that I know how to hold him properly and also know how to burp and feed him. Woohoo! That's a great achievement knowing that I'm so afraid he might get broken if I mishandled him. Well, I've been told off several times, but hey, practice makes perfect!
My mum came back from her hiatus just 2 days ago and I haven't heard enough of "Alden's really fat..." from her. She even now suggests that we should switch back to S26. I dunno, all this switching isn't too good for the baby methinks.
Alden now weighs about 7 plus kgs and have really ballooned up, I'm sure you agree from the pictures I've uploaded here. He's eating well and also very talkative, everyone adores him when he "speaks". I just wished he made more sense. I'll entertain you with a video of his "talks" whenever you come visit me :) Thanks goes to Chong Lee for his Video Camera, very handy! He's also more alert in the day time and almost refuses to go to sleep during the day, insisting that people carry him around, and there are more people than not who will oblige to his "requests". I sometimes take pity on the maid as she has to drop whatever she's doing to attend to him, but only sometimes as I know she also adores him and likes to carry him around too!
Thank God for Sunarti who has really been a great help. I never had such a great maid, she conscientious about her work and very professional a self starter and never complains. I'll have to write her a shining recommendation when she decides to go back to Indonesia.
Here are some pics, enjoy :P
The two weeks with grandma came and went, we had a wonderful time being able to take care of him at nights as he's less fussy now. Sometimes we have to export him over to my mum for night care as he wouldn't stop crying, somehow he feels better with grandma. Now however, he has learnt to sleep reasonably through the night provided that we feed him well before 12 am. So that works.
Karen and I also alternate (or try to) duty nights, so on one night, she'll feed the baby and on the next I'll do the feeding, however, I think I've been cheating because I don't remember waking up as much. Anyway, Alden now wakes up at about 5 to 7 am in the morning and that works well with Karen's schedule. So no complaints.
I am now happy to announce that I know how to hold him properly and also know how to burp and feed him. Woohoo! That's a great achievement knowing that I'm so afraid he might get broken if I mishandled him. Well, I've been told off several times, but hey, practice makes perfect!
My mum came back from her hiatus just 2 days ago and I haven't heard enough of "Alden's really fat..." from her. She even now suggests that we should switch back to S26. I dunno, all this switching isn't too good for the baby methinks.
Alden now weighs about 7 plus kgs and have really ballooned up, I'm sure you agree from the pictures I've uploaded here. He's eating well and also very talkative, everyone adores him when he "speaks". I just wished he made more sense. I'll entertain you with a video of his "talks" whenever you come visit me :) Thanks goes to Chong Lee for his Video Camera, very handy! He's also more alert in the day time and almost refuses to go to sleep during the day, insisting that people carry him around, and there are more people than not who will oblige to his "requests". I sometimes take pity on the maid as she has to drop whatever she's doing to attend to him, but only sometimes as I know she also adores him and likes to carry him around too!
Thank God for Sunarti who has really been a great help. I never had such a great maid, she conscientious about her work and very professional a self starter and never complains. I'll have to write her a shining recommendation when she decides to go back to Indonesia.
Here are some pics, enjoy :P
Monday, November 29, 2004
Alden's 2 Months Old!
No More Problems!
Alden is now eating well, at first he was put on S26, Karen preferred this infant formula brand by default because apparently its her family tradition, her brother and sister also were brought up on S26. Funnily enough, my mum also used S26 on myself, Kenneth and Billy; my brothers. So we were quite content with using S26. We managed to control the vomiting baby, it seems that this is due to the mixture of mother's milk and baby as well. Not because of GERD or Pyloric Stenosis. So panic's over!
Since then, we've switched over to Enfalac A+ that seems to work well as well. Apparently my mum said that people told her that S26 creates fat babies. My mum seems to have something against fat people hence, she encouraged the change. There weren't any ill effects from the switch either. We also found a nice little shop located near the badminton hall near Ming Tien that sells really cheap baby formula, where is it? Well, if you look across the street from 7-11 at Taman Megah you'll find the entrance to the badminton hall parking lot. Simply drive through it half way and you'll find the shop. So go tell people who are having babies now. The stuff there are like nearly 10% cheaper than the hypermarket ones. At the rate Baby Alden is finishing the formula, I think it's a good thing we found the shop. He's now steadily consuming 6 ounces per feed, with 3 hours between feeds.
My mum also took a hiatus to balik tong san (visit China). So she'll be off grandma duty for about 2 weeks. Thank God Karen's mum took a 2 week leave to relieve her, so grandma 2 will "enjoy" his company for the next following 2 weeks.
He also took his second round of shots and the doctor warned that he might develop a fever from the reaction to the shot, so taking the advice of Karen's mum we bought a nice temperature monitoring strip. Very functional, it reads the person's temperature right down to the nearest .2 of a degree within 7 seconds of resting it on the forehead. With a baby that's an achievement, cause Alden likes to move his head randomly.... Anyway, he was fine, did not develop a temperature or anything. So that shot went well :)
Enjoy the pictures!
Alden is now eating well, at first he was put on S26, Karen preferred this infant formula brand by default because apparently its her family tradition, her brother and sister also were brought up on S26. Funnily enough, my mum also used S26 on myself, Kenneth and Billy; my brothers. So we were quite content with using S26. We managed to control the vomiting baby, it seems that this is due to the mixture of mother's milk and baby as well. Not because of GERD or Pyloric Stenosis. So panic's over!
Since then, we've switched over to Enfalac A+ that seems to work well as well. Apparently my mum said that people told her that S26 creates fat babies. My mum seems to have something against fat people hence, she encouraged the change. There weren't any ill effects from the switch either. We also found a nice little shop located near the badminton hall near Ming Tien that sells really cheap baby formula, where is it? Well, if you look across the street from 7-11 at Taman Megah you'll find the entrance to the badminton hall parking lot. Simply drive through it half way and you'll find the shop. So go tell people who are having babies now. The stuff there are like nearly 10% cheaper than the hypermarket ones. At the rate Baby Alden is finishing the formula, I think it's a good thing we found the shop. He's now steadily consuming 6 ounces per feed, with 3 hours between feeds.
My mum also took a hiatus to balik tong san (visit China). So she'll be off grandma duty for about 2 weeks. Thank God Karen's mum took a 2 week leave to relieve her, so grandma 2 will "enjoy" his company for the next following 2 weeks.
He also took his second round of shots and the doctor warned that he might develop a fever from the reaction to the shot, so taking the advice of Karen's mum we bought a nice temperature monitoring strip. Very functional, it reads the person's temperature right down to the nearest .2 of a degree within 7 seconds of resting it on the forehead. With a baby that's an achievement, cause Alden likes to move his head randomly.... Anyway, he was fine, did not develop a temperature or anything. So that shot went well :)
Enjoy the pictures!
Wednesday, November 10, 2004
Monday, November 08, 2004
Back Home From Pantai
The Results
So they went in for "observation" and well, no one actually "observed" the duo much. I'm quite upset over the fact that no one really came and observed them, it was like blow RM500 a day at the hospital thing. And the doctor also wanted to do a Barium test with X-rays to boot. Well, I don't know if I want to go to Pantai Hospital anymore, Karen also said their service isn't really that great, they did not manage to get her things that she has requested. However, it wasn't ALL bad, they have ASTRO...... HHHAHAHAA!! Besides that, their new wing is really impressive, it's like stepping into a hotel. Very nice and modern!
The Tests
The Doctor did do an ultrasound however, that wasn't very conclusive, "nothing wrong" he said, so he came out with GERD instead.. GastroEsophageal Reflux Disease!!! That's why he recommended the Barium tests to "rule out any possibilities". However, what they did at Pantai was to make baby Alden sleep at an inclined angle, hence, he doesn't even throw up anymore. During feeding, baby Alden was kept at an angle as well, so that his head is above his body, that solved a lot of problems, as it was a bit worrying to see him throw up milk during feed as well. I did tell Karen that his a bit too horizontal, even I would have trouble keeping fluids down if I were sleeping and drinking at the same time. He did vomit, but just a little bit, like a wet burp, so that's not a worry.
The Verdict
I hope stating this won't come to haunt me later on, I think he's fine, just that he requires a little more angle during feeding and resting, now we understand why he seems to sleep better in the bouncinette (which is a bit inclined) rather than on flat surfaces. So the next mission is to incline whatever surface he rests on so that he doesn't do his vomiting act anymore. We shall see....
So they went in for "observation" and well, no one actually "observed" the duo much. I'm quite upset over the fact that no one really came and observed them, it was like blow RM500 a day at the hospital thing. And the doctor also wanted to do a Barium test with X-rays to boot. Well, I don't know if I want to go to Pantai Hospital anymore, Karen also said their service isn't really that great, they did not manage to get her things that she has requested. However, it wasn't ALL bad, they have ASTRO...... HHHAHAHAA!! Besides that, their new wing is really impressive, it's like stepping into a hotel. Very nice and modern!
The Tests
The Doctor did do an ultrasound however, that wasn't very conclusive, "nothing wrong" he said, so he came out with GERD instead.. GastroEsophageal Reflux Disease!!! That's why he recommended the Barium tests to "rule out any possibilities". However, what they did at Pantai was to make baby Alden sleep at an inclined angle, hence, he doesn't even throw up anymore. During feeding, baby Alden was kept at an angle as well, so that his head is above his body, that solved a lot of problems, as it was a bit worrying to see him throw up milk during feed as well. I did tell Karen that his a bit too horizontal, even I would have trouble keeping fluids down if I were sleeping and drinking at the same time. He did vomit, but just a little bit, like a wet burp, so that's not a worry.
The Verdict
I hope stating this won't come to haunt me later on, I think he's fine, just that he requires a little more angle during feeding and resting, now we understand why he seems to sleep better in the bouncinette (which is a bit inclined) rather than on flat surfaces. So the next mission is to incline whatever surface he rests on so that he doesn't do his vomiting act anymore. We shall see....
Sunday, November 07, 2004
Worrying Eating Habits
What's going on?
Lately Alden has been drinking his milk and then minutes later, vomits it up again. A lot of people have been giving us theories on why this happens and how to solve it. We've tried their way and it all failed. So today on the 8th of November 2004, we finally took him to a Pediatrician and she examined his abdomen and diagnosed that he may have Pyloric Stenosis.
Pyloric Stenosis
Sound worrying, however, I have researched much on the Internet and it says 2 things:
Hah.... well, I have suggested that she expresses her milk into a bottle so that Alden can finish up in about 5 minutes instead of an hour... Milk will go cold, a lot of reasons lah.
Anyways, she's been admitted to Pantai for 1 day of monitoring and observation (technique check on the breastfeeding), so I'll let you know the results after Karen and Alden gets discharged tomorrow.
Lately Alden has been drinking his milk and then minutes later, vomits it up again. A lot of people have been giving us theories on why this happens and how to solve it. We've tried their way and it all failed. So today on the 8th of November 2004, we finally took him to a Pediatrician and she examined his abdomen and diagnosed that he may have Pyloric Stenosis.
Pyloric Stenosis
Sound worrying, however, I have researched much on the Internet and it says 2 things:
- It's normal for babies to have this. It's the second most common affliction to babies after hernias. 5 times more common for boys to have this rather than girls.
- It's very normal to go for a minor surgery that involves cutting and correcting the muscle which controls the passage of food from the stomach to the small intestines.
Hah.... well, I have suggested that she expresses her milk into a bottle so that Alden can finish up in about 5 minutes instead of an hour... Milk will go cold, a lot of reasons lah.
Anyways, she's been admitted to Pantai for 1 day of monitoring and observation (technique check on the breastfeeding), so I'll let you know the results after Karen and Alden gets discharged tomorrow.
Wednesday, November 03, 2004
Chapter 3 : 5th Week has passed!
How's he doing?!
Alden has certainly grown a whole lot more during the month, when we visited the doctor on the 22nd, he weighed in at 5.1 kg, that is an additional 1.6 kg from the original 3.5 kg he was born with. The doctor also commented that his growth is "Superb!". Well, thanks to the really patient mother that he has. Karen has always taken her time while feeding him, the length of feeding time has now increased to about one and half hours per session too. He also got a booster shot for Hepatitis during the visit. Best part is that he didn't cry very much at the doctor's after receiving the shot, just when I thought that we were in the clear, he got hungry and started crying for food. Ahh well, had to feed him infront of everyone at the waiting area at Assunta Hospital. Luckily we loaded up with baby formula...!
Full Moon Party!
Baby Alden's full moon party took place at home on Sunday, the 24th of October 2004. It was quite a big do and a lot of friends and relatives came to share the joy. It was an eventful day, it started quite early in the morning as Karen came and woke me up. "We're cutting his hair!" she said.
"Oh man, nearly missed it!" I thought as I quickly fumbled around and found Chong Lee's video camera. I made my way downstairs and switched the camera on along the way. Alden was already half way through with the hair cut. He has a lot of hair which was standing up and Grandma who was already an expert with cutting boys' hair (after she had 3 boys to practice on for YEARS!) was busily cutting hair which seemed out of place. I quickly video taped whatever "action" I could, which wasn't much actually. At the end of the "ceremony" he looked much better...
My 3rd Auntie slept over the night before and really helped with the chores, at about noon time, it was like a siesta where nearly all Grandma's sisters chipped in with the cooking, cleaning and arranging efforts. It was an easy day for me as I tried to keep myself out of the way for the ladies to do their job. My job was going to start at about 4.30 p.m. (I cook the pasta, see?)
We had a lot of food, unfortunately for me, I don't know how to eat much of the stuff being served. Let me see if I recall the dishes, Yong Tau Foo, Ang Ku, Red Eggs, Vinegar Trotters, Curry Chicken, Pheonix Feet & Mushrooms (heh we all knew was chicken's feet), some sweet green bean kuih desert thing, my pasta with red and white sauces.
The party started at about 6 pm with guests drifting in, I personally had some friends, colleagues and ex-colleagues who also join in the celebrations. Baby Alden however, was very smart, decided to get hungry just when people were demanding to see him, so I had to hustle Karen to finish up, but being the naughty boy who wouldn't be satisfied with half tank milk, he made noise until he was full up. Then, drifted off to sleep some more... hahaha!
Well most of the guests seem to think he looks like me, "Big eyes, sharp nose and so much hair!" they said, thanks to my mother's pinching of his nose? By the time I had some time to eat on my own, I found that my pasta dish was a hit, erm... I didn't get to eat any of the red sauce and the white one, only 1 final helping left. I made a mental note that 500 g of pasta goes well with 640 grams of chicken... That way I won't under or over cook the next time. A bit disappointed that I didn't get to eat my own dish, but at the same time, beamed with pride that I made a dish that was more in demand than any of the chinese stuff (yea, I don't know how to eat any of that....).
Most guests left by 10 pm, I was still entertaining some of my closer friends like Prakash, Chong Lee, Linda, Marion until 12 am. It was late already, hence, we called it a day... I believe that our maid, Sunarti deserves a mention too as she didn't eat until like 11 p.m. and stuck through the whole day working. She's a rare find that woman.
Alden's Personality
According to his Grandfather, he's an intelligent boy, very perceptive and has a whole range of moods to suite. To his mother, Alden's the cutest thing. To his Grandma, he's getting potty trained whether he likes it or not. To me, I think I've finally accepted that I'm his father and well, I can't wait for him to grow up to see who he takes after (or not). I've finally learnt to carry him around without him complaining much... He's moving his head more and more now and during burping likes to look around, very inquisitive child...! He's gurgling a lot more now, often at the end of every feed, he lets off a very contented sound very much like a sigh.. "Haaaahhhh"
If you scold him and chastise him, he'll somehow respond with a "hah...!" Wonder where he learnt that from...? He also recognises faces now and he really doesn't like it when I get too near to his face, like to beat me off with his mittened hands. I think it's my glasses :)
I certainly think that he's grown more mature over the 5 weeks, and starting to shed some of that baby looks. I'll scan some pictures to include in the blog in a bit...! Wait for the VCD ya!!!
Alden has certainly grown a whole lot more during the month, when we visited the doctor on the 22nd, he weighed in at 5.1 kg, that is an additional 1.6 kg from the original 3.5 kg he was born with. The doctor also commented that his growth is "Superb!". Well, thanks to the really patient mother that he has. Karen has always taken her time while feeding him, the length of feeding time has now increased to about one and half hours per session too. He also got a booster shot for Hepatitis during the visit. Best part is that he didn't cry very much at the doctor's after receiving the shot, just when I thought that we were in the clear, he got hungry and started crying for food. Ahh well, had to feed him infront of everyone at the waiting area at Assunta Hospital. Luckily we loaded up with baby formula...!
Full Moon Party!
Baby Alden's full moon party took place at home on Sunday, the 24th of October 2004. It was quite a big do and a lot of friends and relatives came to share the joy. It was an eventful day, it started quite early in the morning as Karen came and woke me up. "We're cutting his hair!" she said.
"Oh man, nearly missed it!" I thought as I quickly fumbled around and found Chong Lee's video camera. I made my way downstairs and switched the camera on along the way. Alden was already half way through with the hair cut. He has a lot of hair which was standing up and Grandma who was already an expert with cutting boys' hair (after she had 3 boys to practice on for YEARS!) was busily cutting hair which seemed out of place. I quickly video taped whatever "action" I could, which wasn't much actually. At the end of the "ceremony" he looked much better...
My 3rd Auntie slept over the night before and really helped with the chores, at about noon time, it was like a siesta where nearly all Grandma's sisters chipped in with the cooking, cleaning and arranging efforts. It was an easy day for me as I tried to keep myself out of the way for the ladies to do their job. My job was going to start at about 4.30 p.m. (I cook the pasta, see?)
We had a lot of food, unfortunately for me, I don't know how to eat much of the stuff being served. Let me see if I recall the dishes, Yong Tau Foo, Ang Ku, Red Eggs, Vinegar Trotters, Curry Chicken, Pheonix Feet & Mushrooms (heh we all knew was chicken's feet), some sweet green bean kuih desert thing, my pasta with red and white sauces.
The party started at about 6 pm with guests drifting in, I personally had some friends, colleagues and ex-colleagues who also join in the celebrations. Baby Alden however, was very smart, decided to get hungry just when people were demanding to see him, so I had to hustle Karen to finish up, but being the naughty boy who wouldn't be satisfied with half tank milk, he made noise until he was full up. Then, drifted off to sleep some more... hahaha!
Well most of the guests seem to think he looks like me, "Big eyes, sharp nose and so much hair!" they said, thanks to my mother's pinching of his nose? By the time I had some time to eat on my own, I found that my pasta dish was a hit, erm... I didn't get to eat any of the red sauce and the white one, only 1 final helping left. I made a mental note that 500 g of pasta goes well with 640 grams of chicken... That way I won't under or over cook the next time. A bit disappointed that I didn't get to eat my own dish, but at the same time, beamed with pride that I made a dish that was more in demand than any of the chinese stuff (yea, I don't know how to eat any of that....).
Most guests left by 10 pm, I was still entertaining some of my closer friends like Prakash, Chong Lee, Linda, Marion until 12 am. It was late already, hence, we called it a day... I believe that our maid, Sunarti deserves a mention too as she didn't eat until like 11 p.m. and stuck through the whole day working. She's a rare find that woman.
Alden's Personality
According to his Grandfather, he's an intelligent boy, very perceptive and has a whole range of moods to suite. To his mother, Alden's the cutest thing. To his Grandma, he's getting potty trained whether he likes it or not. To me, I think I've finally accepted that I'm his father and well, I can't wait for him to grow up to see who he takes after (or not). I've finally learnt to carry him around without him complaining much... He's moving his head more and more now and during burping likes to look around, very inquisitive child...! He's gurgling a lot more now, often at the end of every feed, he lets off a very contented sound very much like a sigh.. "Haaaahhhh"
If you scold him and chastise him, he'll somehow respond with a "hah...!" Wonder where he learnt that from...? He also recognises faces now and he really doesn't like it when I get too near to his face, like to beat me off with his mittened hands. I think it's my glasses :)
I certainly think that he's grown more mature over the 5 weeks, and starting to shed some of that baby looks. I'll scan some pictures to include in the blog in a bit...! Wait for the VCD ya!!!
Monday, October 11, 2004
Sunday, October 10, 2004
Chapter 2 : Baby Alden's First 2 Weeks
2 weeks have come and gone. Wow, it's really really fast, and baby Alden would have added on 500 grams by now, which makes him about 4 kg.
The Homecoming
When we first brought him home on the 3rd day, he was a bit jaundiced and looked just a bit yellow. He had a steady appetite and was still very weak and fragile, and he slept for most hours waking up only when he feels hungry and needs to feed or to be changed.
Initially at the hospital he was fed a mixture of S-26 as well as on mother's milk, it was a bit inadequate though because Karen was still "getting used" to breast feeding, it was quite difficult to as she was only beginning to lactate. The good doctor advised Karen that she should not put the baby on formula so soon and get him to suck whenever he wants (on-demand) is the word because when the baby sucks, it would stimulate her to lactate faster. So Karen decided to follow the doctor's advice.
The Confinement
I just read the other day on the web that pregnancy isn't hard... It's the confinement that really gets to you. Looking back after having Karen in confinement for 2 weeks, it's true, EVERY WORD!! Karen had a good pregnancy, she didn't have cravings (whoopee for me), morning sickness, depression or anxiety attacks. Her back aches were there but where quite mild, she only complains of cramped calves which seem to trigger mostly in the night while sleeping.
For me, every meal for Karen smells the same and looks the same, it's always mixed with ginger. I also detect sesame seed smell as well, my family members always said that I have a overly sensitive nose, which is true! The meals are cooked to ensure that the "heat" is retained for Karen and that she has to be wearing long pants and cannot expose herself to the "wind", lest she wants to get severe athritis in her later life. As a result, Karen is always sweating, her long hair starts to smell after about 2 days, she herself detests the confinement period and keeps on asking who came up with this "idea". She has mentioned to me more than once that this confinement seems to mask its true hidden agenda for "family planning", as the confinement is truly unbearable. I seem to think so too as she has said before she wanted 3 children, now 2 seems to be enough... :) My mother had to prepare some special herbal water for her to bathe which smells of lemon grass and she didn't bathe until the weekend!
The Jaundice
I was very worried over Alden's jaundice and on Thursday evening went to the hospital to check with the nurses to see if Alden is infact jaundiced. They mentioned that he did look yellow but the only way to find out for sure is to get a blood sample and check the jaundice levels. We went home satisfied and got some herbs from the Section 17 medicine shop for him to bathe him, apparently, I used the same herbs as a baby as well. We also sunned him in the morning so that the jaundice will clear itself faster. This went on until Tuesday the following week 5th of October before we really got worried and brought Alden in for a blood sample.
My mum and Karen did make the trip in the end and they managed to get the "all clear" from the doctor. He said that Alden's jaundice is way below normal and we shouldn't worry, things should clear up when he's about a month old. So with that surety, we went home with relief. I heard some horror stories about how jaundice can affect a baby's mental development and could be fatal as well from my office colleagues. Thank God everything is all right!
Changes : Am I getting enough sleep?
A lot of my friends and relatives ask me this question, as the father, (heavy word with a lot of responsibilities there), and at the moment : yes I am, I can't say the same about the mother though, Karen is woken up a few times in the night to the cries of "FEED ME, FEED ME" which sounds like, "uuueeekkkk, uuueeekkkk...." Funnily that ALSO sounds like "I'm WET. I'm WET!!!" as well. So with no way of telling which is which, we got a system up, he feeds at about 3 hour intervals with 45 minutes feeding + burping period, all noise making in between is wetness... hehe!
I can only sympathize with Karen as I always say to everyone who asks me this question, "Don't come to me, I don't have milk to give....!" which is true, for now... Wait till we move onto the baby formula, that time, no excuse liao!
How's the Baby?
Alden is fine :) He's a very co-operative baby, doesn't make any noise apart from when he is soiled and needs changing and at other times, feeding. He isn't colicky or very grumpy, he just wants to be attended to and then we can all resume our lives. Very considerate child. Well, it's just 2 weeks, so, I'll tell you more later on. In the first week, he doesn't really flail his arms about but when it comes to week 2, he's kicking and fighting and flailing hands and feet to get attention especially during feeding, so we have to be patient and sooth him before feeding so that he doesn't flail around as much. He seems happy when he finds the nipple and drifts off to sleep most times just when he's had his fill. Even during burping he can sleep through it. Funny thing though, 80% of the time after feeding and burping he'll get hiccups.
Alden is now more alert and more awake as well, he doesn't always doze off after a feed anymore, at times, he'll be awake and look around him, he responds well to his grand dad's cajoling, flails at me when I put my face really close to him, enjoys music (or seems to be), detests the pre-mature potty training by grand ma and gurgles quite a lot when left on his own. He's most content after feeding and makes nice content noises...! I like it when he "stretches" and urgles at the same time...
Alden's Chinese Name
Some of you may be asking me this, so I'll put it up. It's P'ng Zhi Zenn promounced Chee Zenn. The individual characters in Chinese stands for intelligence and luck. His English (not Christian) name is Alden. Alden stands for Wise Protector. Al is pronounced as ALL and den is pronounced same as the don in London. The English names comprises of both my name : Alex and Karen's. So that's how we arrived at Alden. Well, couple that with a really hard to pronounce Surname, he'll have LOTS OF FUN introducing himself :)
Pictures
I'll post some up later, when I fire up the uploading engine again... heh!
Read on for more updates later ok? ;)
The Homecoming
When we first brought him home on the 3rd day, he was a bit jaundiced and looked just a bit yellow. He had a steady appetite and was still very weak and fragile, and he slept for most hours waking up only when he feels hungry and needs to feed or to be changed.
Initially at the hospital he was fed a mixture of S-26 as well as on mother's milk, it was a bit inadequate though because Karen was still "getting used" to breast feeding, it was quite difficult to as she was only beginning to lactate. The good doctor advised Karen that she should not put the baby on formula so soon and get him to suck whenever he wants (on-demand) is the word because when the baby sucks, it would stimulate her to lactate faster. So Karen decided to follow the doctor's advice.
The Confinement
I just read the other day on the web that pregnancy isn't hard... It's the confinement that really gets to you. Looking back after having Karen in confinement for 2 weeks, it's true, EVERY WORD!! Karen had a good pregnancy, she didn't have cravings (whoopee for me), morning sickness, depression or anxiety attacks. Her back aches were there but where quite mild, she only complains of cramped calves which seem to trigger mostly in the night while sleeping.
For me, every meal for Karen smells the same and looks the same, it's always mixed with ginger. I also detect sesame seed smell as well, my family members always said that I have a overly sensitive nose, which is true! The meals are cooked to ensure that the "heat" is retained for Karen and that she has to be wearing long pants and cannot expose herself to the "wind", lest she wants to get severe athritis in her later life. As a result, Karen is always sweating, her long hair starts to smell after about 2 days, she herself detests the confinement period and keeps on asking who came up with this "idea". She has mentioned to me more than once that this confinement seems to mask its true hidden agenda for "family planning", as the confinement is truly unbearable. I seem to think so too as she has said before she wanted 3 children, now 2 seems to be enough... :) My mother had to prepare some special herbal water for her to bathe which smells of lemon grass and she didn't bathe until the weekend!
The Jaundice
I was very worried over Alden's jaundice and on Thursday evening went to the hospital to check with the nurses to see if Alden is infact jaundiced. They mentioned that he did look yellow but the only way to find out for sure is to get a blood sample and check the jaundice levels. We went home satisfied and got some herbs from the Section 17 medicine shop for him to bathe him, apparently, I used the same herbs as a baby as well. We also sunned him in the morning so that the jaundice will clear itself faster. This went on until Tuesday the following week 5th of October before we really got worried and brought Alden in for a blood sample.
My mum and Karen did make the trip in the end and they managed to get the "all clear" from the doctor. He said that Alden's jaundice is way below normal and we shouldn't worry, things should clear up when he's about a month old. So with that surety, we went home with relief. I heard some horror stories about how jaundice can affect a baby's mental development and could be fatal as well from my office colleagues. Thank God everything is all right!
Changes : Am I getting enough sleep?
A lot of my friends and relatives ask me this question, as the father, (heavy word with a lot of responsibilities there), and at the moment : yes I am, I can't say the same about the mother though, Karen is woken up a few times in the night to the cries of "FEED ME, FEED ME" which sounds like, "uuueeekkkk, uuueeekkkk...." Funnily that ALSO sounds like "I'm WET. I'm WET!!!" as well. So with no way of telling which is which, we got a system up, he feeds at about 3 hour intervals with 45 minutes feeding + burping period, all noise making in between is wetness... hehe!
I can only sympathize with Karen as I always say to everyone who asks me this question, "Don't come to me, I don't have milk to give....!" which is true, for now... Wait till we move onto the baby formula, that time, no excuse liao!
How's the Baby?
Alden is fine :) He's a very co-operative baby, doesn't make any noise apart from when he is soiled and needs changing and at other times, feeding. He isn't colicky or very grumpy, he just wants to be attended to and then we can all resume our lives. Very considerate child. Well, it's just 2 weeks, so, I'll tell you more later on. In the first week, he doesn't really flail his arms about but when it comes to week 2, he's kicking and fighting and flailing hands and feet to get attention especially during feeding, so we have to be patient and sooth him before feeding so that he doesn't flail around as much. He seems happy when he finds the nipple and drifts off to sleep most times just when he's had his fill. Even during burping he can sleep through it. Funny thing though, 80% of the time after feeding and burping he'll get hiccups.
Alden is now more alert and more awake as well, he doesn't always doze off after a feed anymore, at times, he'll be awake and look around him, he responds well to his grand dad's cajoling, flails at me when I put my face really close to him, enjoys music (or seems to be), detests the pre-mature potty training by grand ma and gurgles quite a lot when left on his own. He's most content after feeding and makes nice content noises...! I like it when he "stretches" and urgles at the same time...
Alden's Chinese Name
Some of you may be asking me this, so I'll put it up. It's P'ng Zhi Zenn promounced Chee Zenn. The individual characters in Chinese stands for intelligence and luck. His English (not Christian) name is Alden. Alden stands for Wise Protector. Al is pronounced as ALL and den is pronounced same as the don in London. The English names comprises of both my name : Alex and Karen's. So that's how we arrived at Alden. Well, couple that with a really hard to pronounce Surname, he'll have LOTS OF FUN introducing himself :)
Pictures
I'll post some up later, when I fire up the uploading engine again... heh!
Read on for more updates later ok? ;)
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